How do you conciliate being gay and religious?

I'm Episcopalian which is a decaffeinated Catholic without confession or a Pope. For the most part, we are pretty liberal. A few haters when we got our two gay head bishops but in my church, we accept everyone. We are taught to not follow the bible literally because it was made, and abused, by man. We had a lovely gay couple in our church for a while and I sometimes bring my boyfriend to church with me. A prominent member of our church has two gay daughters and all that as well. I feel that since God made me, and I never asked to be gay, God must approve. After all, I am loving someone and it is not a sin to love.