I would like to know why? ?

At first I was completely alienated from having any male guy friends. Since last year a couple of guys would talk to me. At first I thought it was some sort of game you know play on the "gay" guy. But usually I see more straight guys talking to me. I'm really confused because I thought it was "heresy" to talk to the "gay guy" heck even the football quarterback talks to me isn't that just a bit bizarre!? What I want to know is why. Btw I'm not like overly gay I don't know if that plays a role in my question...